Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Saturday, June 19, 2021

Men Of God

The man that God is looking for is just what your family needs most.


Joshua 24:15 But if you refuse to serve the LORD, then choose today whom you will serve. Would you prefer the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates? Or will it be the gods of the Amorites in whose land you now live? But as for me and my family, we will serve the LORD.”

The famous mandate that Joshua made to the people of God seems like a simple choice when you consider the alternatives. God's people had exposure to many different gods before this ultimatum was give, first the gods of Egypt and then the gods of the Canaanite people, they saw the failures of the gods so you would think that they would make the right choice.

God's people had witnessed the fact that the other gods had no power to save themselves or the people that believed in them. The God of Israel had brought victory to his people that no other gods could accomplish. He brought them out of Egypt with loads of gifts and then he gave them victories to fulfill the promise to give them land.

God's people found out that the victories of yesterday are not a guarantee for tomorrow, making the right choice isn't a one and done situation, deciding who we will serve is a daily decision. If we don't make a deliberate choice then we will be stuck with one of the default choices, anything that we love more than God. 

God Is Looking For: 

  • Men that will lead their family by making a stand similar to the one that Joshua made. 
  • Men that will exert influence on others without worry of what others may think.
  • Men that will say "You do what you want to do but as for me and my family." 
  • Men that will get rid of their idols and let God be God. 
  • Men that will serve Him in sincerity and faithfulness. 
The "Man of God" devotional by Charles Stanley tells us what your family is looking for that only you can provide with God's help.

Your family needs:

  • A man that will be the family’s spiritual leader. 
  • A man that will allow God to lead him. 
  • A man that is aware of the spiritual needs of his family.
  • A man that is alert to opportunities for service.
  • A man that is available to share himself with others.
  • A man that is willing to protect his family
God is looking for men that will live for him so that they can lead their family well. A man that will provide for their spiritual, emotional and physical needs. It's a lot to ask a man to be so much for his family but if we become the men that God is looking for then we will have his power to help us succeed even through our imperfections.

Wednesday, February 25, 2015

Awesome Outcomes

Does your faith have a positive effect on others?


John 4:43-52  At the end of the two days, Jesus went on to Galilee.  44  He Himself had said that a prophet is not honored in his own hometown.  45  Yet the Galileans welcomed Him, for they had been in Jerusalem at the Passover celebration and had seen everything He did there.

46  As He traveled through Galilee, He came to Cana, where He had turned the water into wine. There was a government official in nearby Capernaum whose son was very sick.  47  When he heard that Jesus had come from Judea to Galilee, he went and begged Jesus to come to Capernaum to heal his son, who was about to die.

48  Jesus asked, "Will you never believe in Me unless you see miraculous signs and wonders?"  49  The official pleaded, "Lord, please come now before my little boy dies."

50  Then Jesus told him, "Go back home. Your son will live!" And the man believed what Jesus said and started home.

51  While the man was on his way, some of his servants met him with the news that his son was alive and well.  52  He asked them when the boy had begun to get better, and they replied, "Yesterday afternoon at one o'clock his fever suddenly disappeared!" 53  Then the father realized that that was the very time Jesus had told him, "Your son will live."

Jesus doesn't stay in one place for very long. He didn't waste his time with people that did not react in faith but he didn't stay too long with people that did demonstrate faith. He could have stayed and enjoyed the popularity that he had in Samaria but after a couple of days he moved on.

After the warm welcome that Jesus had among people that were not considered Jewish he went back toward his homeland but once again he didn't encounter people of faith. We don't even get a picture of what his ministry was on that day but we know that they didn't respond.

Time to move on, time to reveal God's love to somebody else, somebody that the Jews would despise. The royal official of Herod's court could be a Gentile or he could have been a Jew that had taken a job working for the government, either way the man was probably despised and rejected.

The official left his home in Capernaum to search for Jesus in Cana. This must have been a last ditch effort to save his son. This guy probably had enough money and the social network to give him access to the best doctors of the day but none of that did any good.
The man seems to have faith that Jesus can heal his son but he doesn't know about Jesus timetable. The verb tense that John uses indicates that he was repeatedly begging Jesus to come to his home and heal his son.

He tries to rush Jesus because he thinks that he needs to get Jesus back to his house. He thought that the travel time could make the difference between life and death for his son. Jesus settles the man's fear by telling him that it is finished, the healing has taken place, Jesus tells him that his son will live. He isn't going to die but does that mean that he is fully healed?

One commentator pointed out to me that the man was traveling home, which was only a day long journey, yet he wasn't home yet when the servants met him the next day. It seems that he really did have extreme faith, it looks like he didn't run home with any anxiousness, I am pretty sure that I would have run home to be sure that my son was okay.
My Faith Affects Others
2 Thessalonians 1:3-4  Dear brothers and sisters, we can't help but thank God for you, because your faith is flourishing and your love for one another is growing. We proudly tell God's other churches about your endurance and faithfulness in all the persecutions and hardships you are suffering.
Most of our prayer time is focused on getting rid of the stuff that makes us uncomfortable and we fail to realize that the uncomfortable stuff is usually the stuff that God is using for our benefit. What if it isn't for our benefit but for the good of somebody in our life? We usually don't consider that the stuff that we don't like is the stuff that God loves to use.

This family and their servants were greatly upset at the thought of losing this boy. The father probably spent a lot of money to see the best doctors in Capernaum. His mom probably cried herself to sleep every night. Somebody probably stayed up with the boy all night. Surely they must have begged some "god" to heal the boy.

These were the worst of times but they were the best of times. Through all of the tears, the grief and the stress a greater good came. The father met Jesus and his reaction to Jesus had an effect on his entire household.

The father believed that Jesus could come to his house and heal his son but Jesus increased his faith and gave him a better understanding of himself so that the man could believe that Jesus could heal him without being there.

Does your faith have an effect on others? Does your faith have a positive effect on others?

All of us have faith that affects others but most of us don't have faith that has a positive effect on others. Too many times we don't put our faith into practice, we beg God to remove the difficulty, we freak out that life isn't going right. This kind of reaction has a negative effect on the people around you that need to grow in faith. They need to see how big your faith is and that you put it to good use.

I need to display faith in every situation because there are people all around me that are watching to see if my faith is good enough to get me through the tough stuff that life throws at me. If my faith fails it can have an effect on many more people than I realize.

Thank you Lord for faith, thank you for the effect that it has had on my household. What a blessing to see that my faith has been contagious and has been passed on to my children. Help me to be strong in faith so that the people around me will see that you are sufficient for every need.

Saturday, June 04, 2011

Taking Care Of Your Family

Men of the Bible Series - Judah knew the value of family relationships.


Genesis 37:26 Judah said to his brothers, “What will we gain by killing our brother? His blood would just give us a guilty conscience. 27 Instead of hurting him, let’s sell him to those Ishmaelite traders. After all, he is our brother, our own flesh and blood!” And his brothers agreed.

Genesis 44:30 “And now, my lord, I cannot go back to my father without the boy. Our father’s life is bound up in the boy’s life. 31 If he sees that the boy is not with us, our father will die. We, your servants, will indeed be responsible for sending that grieving, white-haired man to his grave. 32 My lord, I guaranteed to my father that I would take care of the boy. I told him, ‘If I don’t bring him back to you, I will bear the blame forever.’

33 “So please, my lord, let me stay here as a slave instead of the boy, and let the boy return with his brothers. 34 For how can I return to my father if the boy is not with me? I couldn’t bear to see the anguish this would cause my father!”

Just like all of the men of the Bible, Judah had his good moments and he had some times when he really messed up. Thankfully God can still use that kind of people, after-all that is the only kind of people that God has access to, if he didn't use imperfect people then he wouldn't have anybody to use.

Judah was the fourth son of Jacob by Leah, his aunt Rachel was his dad's favorite wife, the envy between his mom and his aunt probably made for a dysfunctional family. His dad Jacob had a bad habit of picking favorites, not only did he have a favorite wife but he also had a favorite son.

Jacob's favorite son was Joseph, the kid that had the best clothes, including a fancy coat. Joseph was annoying about it all too and his brothers couldn't stand it and wanted to kill him. Judah was the guy that saved Joseph and devised the plan that would send Joseph away.

Later in life Judah was sticking up for his family again. This time he begged to keep Benjamin out of slavery to Joseph who was now the top guy under the Pharaoh. Judah took charge in protecting his family and offered to be Joseph's slave instead of Benjamin. This protected Benjamin and it also served to protect his father Jacob as well since they feared that he would die if something happened to his youngest son.

Judah was not a perfect man (Genesis 38:1-30) and he came from a less than perfect family background but he always tried to protect his family and do what was best for them even to the point of offering himself as a slave instead of his little brother.

I need to look out for the best interest of my family at any cost. My wife and kids are my priority and God expects me to take care of them.

Lord, I pray that you will strengthen families, I pray that men will make a deliberate choice to put their families first.

You might like to read: Men of the Bible blog series.

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Honor Your Parents

The fifth commandment is still in effect.


Matthew 15:4  God says, 'Honor your father and mother,' and 'Anyone who speaks disrespectfully of father or mother must be put to death.'

Exodus 20:12  "Honor your father and mother. Then you will live a long, full life in the land the LORD your God is giving you."

The first command that pertains to our relationships with people is the one that tells us how to treat our parents. We are to show honor to them, that means not only respect and submission, but also to take care of a person, to nurture and sustain them.

It isn't any surprise that God wants us to treat our parents with the highest regard after all he told us to love our enemies and those people that persecute us. So then even if our parents were very lousy, terrible parents then we are still obligated to love and respect them and to take care of their needs when they cannot.

Lord help me to love my parents and care for them as they grow older. Thank you for Christian parents.

You might like to read: Commands of Jesus blog series